Initiates: Master, I would like to ask how to deal with the fact that my family has saved a lot of incense and ashes after burning incense and incense roots every day. Teacher: Be respectful, wrap the incense ash in a red cloth, and it is better to find a clean place to bury it. It's best to find a clean place to melt the vein. (July 10, 2010.)

In fact, the appearance of a third party is a wake-up call for your relationship, at least it shows that there are problems in your relationship, and the most direct reason is the attraction problem. Any person has a selfish side, two people rely on each other to live a life originally trying to get what they want in each other, whether it is material or spiritual, the attraction of the third party must be what he wants but you don't have, or what you have but then don't have, whether this thing is past or present, you lack attention. Therefore, the third person is telling you that it is time for you to change yourself, not just the previous one, but a better you. Then a third party also provides you with a change of direction. When you correct your mentality, then you can calmly and correctly face and deal with the problem, whether you want to leave or want to recover, this is the first step. The problem with the other person can only be solved by yourself, so the first step to recovery is to solve the problem.

Liberation is a good thing, but sometimes it is self-defeating and becomes a bad thing, and most of the reasons are because of the lack of correct cognition, the blind nature of release, and the failure to use correct scientific methods to carry out it. Therefore, we should correctly understand the release of life, actively guide it, and realize the department